Guys ask me questions about " finding a woman " and "how to flirt with women " and similar things all the time .
But definitely the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."
But not surprisingly the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I published my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
Firstly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and continual interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
Unfortunately, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also regrettably most people normally continue this habit of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the end it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own temperament and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.
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But definitely the best answer for all of these kind of questions is "experience."
But not surprisingly the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I published my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
Firstly, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no purpose of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and continual interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
It may seem immature, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are dating need to remember.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
Unfortunately, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also regrettably most people normally continue this habit of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the end it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even have an understanding of our own temperament and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.
Things Which Ought To Be Considered While Selecting The Right Singles Online Dating Websites
With the explosion of singles online dating sites has come a virtual smorgasbord of choices. There are free online dating sites, I don't recommend those but if money is a real concern, they are better than nothing.
How You Can Approach Any Woman, Anytime, Anywhere Successfully.
What to do to get the conversation going when there is seemingly nothing to talk about. How to spark conversation with ANY girl in a very simple and effective manner.
Are You Afraid To Converse Or Meet Girls?
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Rather than running away from the situation, lower the gradient.
Is Mr. L. Rx A Typical Fraud? Is His Book Dating To Relating Another Mislead?
Mr. L. Rx says somewhere on his website "Why double your dating when you can 10 x it?" And this is comparably the truth. From personal experience the order of magnitude of his technology will get you about 5 times as many women as any of the other technologies.
How To Attract Females - Unclear Signals And Flirting
How to successfully handle a woman who is sending confusing flirtations - and how to spot a woman who is flirting just for fun.
Read And Discover If David Deangelo And Ross Jeffries Are A Fraud?
Article looks at David Deangelo (Double Your Dating) and Ross Jeffries (Speed Seduction) and evaluates them in terms of are their materials, books and information scams?
First Dates: What Not To Do, In Order To Attract Women. - A Fantastic Guide To Learn More
Attracting women - How to avoid making mistakes guys make on the first date that prevents ever getting a second date or developing a sexual relationship.
Is Speed Seduction A Fraud? Is Ross Jeffries Writings A Hype?
Jeffries book "How To Get The Women You Desire into Bed" can be said to be outdated, timeless, trashy, and inspiring all at the same time.